Shawn

Single Gay Man seeks Open Minded Independent Thinker.

I’m a Jeans an T-Shirt guy, I don’t require the latest runway fashion or hottest new designer. I wouldn’t judge my significant other if he lived for that! Common interests are essential to any lasting relationship. However, understanding, and supporting the different passions of your partner are equally important.

I am a firm believer it’s the quality of time you spend with someone over the quantity of time. Separation truly does make the heart grow founder! I am looking for someone that understands being in the moment mind body, and soul For 2 hours is better than spending 2 days “together.” Better yet finding a man that could spend 2 complete days with me “in the moment.”

I consider myself very low maintenance. I prefer one on one, to large groups. I love cuddling on couch watching a movie. I would prefer a thoughtfully prepared/or purchased picnic to a Michelin Star Chef prepared meal, if you could get us the reservation I would go in a heartbeat! Lol it’s just not the “must have” night with my partner. I am at a stage in my life “The Scene” was fun for awhile, until it wasn’t. I don’t want to spend my weekends at the club, or a bar. I want to spent it with someone special and not the “man dejour” Of Saturday night. I’m not saying I’m an old curmudgeon, I just prefer a more intimate time with someone special.

When it comes to finances I’m not looking for anyone to help me in that area. Nor am I looking to financially support someone else. I will however willing and enthusiastically provide Unconditional emotional support. I don’t care what type of employment someone has as long as 1) They are able to support their needs. 2) They have a passion for, or at very least enjoy their work. I don’t care what type of home you have Rent, Own, Tiny house again if it brings you joy, and provides you the space you desire, I am happy for you. Finally it is important that you have your own mode of transformation... this could be but not limited too Walking, Bicycle, Skateboard, Scooter Motorized/Non-Motorized, Motorcycle, Bus Pass, Taxi, Ride Share, Owned/Leased Automobile (it could be a 1974 AMC Lime Green Gremlin) as long as the mode of transportation gets you from point A to B I don’t judge!

I don’t say or commit to anything be it work or social related. If I say I will do or say something, hell or high water I will be there. I believe we are only as trustworthy as our word. I would hope that my perspective mate understands and would feel the same.

I will admit I’m a flawed man. I’ve done things in life I’m not proud of, however I have learned from and moved on. I’ve also done things in my past that I’m so incredibly thankful I had the opportunity to do, and be part of. Flaws, Good, Bad all have shaped me into the man I am today. I like the man I see in the motor when I shave. At points in my life I didn’t.

I’m at a place I’m ready to find someone who can appreciate, and respect me for the man I am today. If you would like to see if we click, I’m willing to take the leap!

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5' 9 (1.75 m)

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